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В логах mysql никакой авторизацией и не пахнет :(- в самом низу

#uname -a
Linux debian 2.6.15-1-686

courier -0.47
# mysql --version
mysql  Ver 14.12 Distrib 5.0.18,

Вот что в логах:
Sep 28 01:31:14 debian authdaemond.mysql: restarting authdaemond children
Sep 28 01:31:14 debian authdaemond.mysql: modules="authmysql", daemons=5
Sep 28 01:31:14 debian authdaemond.mysql: modules="authmysql", daemons=5
Sep 28 02:09:17 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN: DEBUG: ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1], command=USER
Sep 28 02:09:21 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN: DEBUG: ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1], command=PASS
Sep 28 02:09:21 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN: DEBUG: ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1], username=weldpua
Sep 28 02:09:21 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN: DEBUG: ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1], password=wel
Sep 28 02:09:26 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN FAILED, ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1]
Sep 28 02:09:29 debian courierpop3login: LOGIN: DEBUG: ip=[::ffff:192.168.100.1], command=QUIT

# exim4 -bV
Exim version 4.60 #1 built 22-Feb-2006 10:49:24
Support for: crypteq iconv() IPv6 PAM Perl GnuTLS move_frozen_messages Content_Scanning Old_Demime
Lookups: lsearch wildlsearch nwildlsearch iplsearch cdb dbm dbmnz dnsdb dsearch ldap ldapdn ldapm mysql nis nis0 passwd pgsqlAuthenticators: cram_md5 cyrus_sasl plaintext spa
Routers: accept dnslookup ipliteral iplookup manualroute queryprogram redirect
Transports: appendfile/maildir/mailstore/mbx autoreply lmtp pipe smtp
Fixed never_users: 0

# cat /etc/courier/authdaemonrc|grep -v '#'
authmodulelist="authmysql"
authmodulelistorig="authmysql authuserdb authpam authpgsql authldap  authcustom authpipe"
daemons=5
authdaemonvar=/var/spool/authdaemon
DEFAULTOPTIONS=""
DEBUG_LOGIN=2

# cat /etc/courier/authmysqlrc|grep -v '#'
MYSQL_SERVER            localhost
MYSQL_USERNAME          exim
MYSQL_PASSWORD          cnhfdfeljvf
MYSQL_SOCKET            /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
MYSQL_OPT               0
MYSQL_DATABASE          exim
MYSQL_SELECT_CLAUSE     SELECT CONCAT(id,'@',mbox_host), crypt, "", 1001, 6, home, CONCAT(home,'/Maildir'), "", id, ""  FROM users WHERE CONCAT(id,'@',mbox_host) ="$(local_part)@$(domain)"
MYSQL_USER_TABLE        `users`
MYSQL_CLEAR_PWFIELD     `passwd`
MYSQL_UID_FIELD         `uid`
MYSQL_GID_FIELD         `gid`
MYSQL_LOGIN_FIELD       `id`
MYSQL_MAILDIR_FIELD     CONCAT(`home`, `id`)
MYSQL_HOME_FIELD "/home/vmail/domains/"

# cat /etc/courier/pop3d|grep -v '#'
PIDFILE=/var/run/pop3d.pid
MAXDAEMONS=40
MAXPERIP=4
POP3AUTH="LOGIN"
POP3AUTH_ORIG="LOGIN CRAM-MD5 CRAM-SHA1 CRAM-SHA256"
POP3AUTH_TLS_ORIG="LOGIN PLAIN"
POP3_PROXY=0
PORT=110
ADDRESS=0
TCPDOPTS="-nodnslookup -noidentlookup"
POP3DSTART=YES
MAILDIRPATH=Maildir
LOGGEROPTS="-name=pop3d"
DEBUG_LOGIN=2

# cat /var/log/mysql/mysql.log|grep -v '#'
/usr/sbin/mysqld, Version: 5.0.18-Debian_9-log. started with:
Tcp port: 3306  Unix socket: /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
Time                 Id Command    Argument
060928  1:40:38       2 Connect     exim@localhost on exim
                      2 Query       SELECT domain FROM domains WHERE domain='skyhome' AND (type='LOCAL' OR type='VIRTUAL')
                      2 Query       SELECT recipients FROM aliases WHERE local_part='weldpua2008' AND domain='skyhome'
                      2 Query       SELECT recipients FROM userforward WHERE local_part='weldpua2008' AND domain='skyhome'
                      2 Query       SELECT home FROM users WHERE id='weldpua2008' AND mbox_host='skyhome' AND active='Y'
                      2 Quit
060928  1:49:13       3 Connect     exim@localhost on exim
                      3 Query       SELECT address FROM blacklists WHERE address='192.168.100.1' AND type='HOSTREJ'
060928  1:49:14       3 Query       SELECT domain FROM domains WHERE domain='' AND (type='LOCAL' OR type='VIRTUAL')
060928  1:49:31       3 Quit
060928  1:49:40       4 Connect     exim@localhost on exim
                      4 Query       SELECT address FROM blacklists WHERE address='192.168.100.1' AND type='HOSTREJ'
                      4 Query       SELECT domain FROM domains WHERE domain='' AND (type='LOCAL' OR type='VIRTUAL')
060928  1:49:53       4 Query       SELECT domain FROM domains WHERE domain='' AND type='RELAY'
060928  1:50:57       4 Quit